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So you've met the man of your dreams...and he's got kids. How do you deal with the situation?
- Be honest with yourself. Sure, the guy is great and you guys have the best time, but if kids are not your thing and you can't overcome and try - it is ok to feel that way.
- Talk it out. Talk with your man, your friends, or blog. Sometimes getting the feelings and fears out will make you feel better.
- Any man that you fear telling your friends and family about is probably a man you know isn't good for you.