With a shy guy you have to be more available, take the lead more often and maybe even give him the first kiss. Keep in mind, however, that he needs to be responding very positively to each of your moves. Here are some dating tips to bring a shy guy out of his shell.
- Be yourself. Acting will show, it will probably intimidate him, and it won't hold up in the long term.
- If he doesn’t respond positively to each of your moves, take a good look at why. Are you moving too fast for his shyness? Is he just not into you? It's okay to ask him these things, too. A simple, "Is this something you want to try?" or "Is anything wrong?" can make up for a lot of guessing.
- End the relationship if you need to. You don’t want to be stuck in a fantasy where you are crazy about someone who is truly not into you.
- Smile at him a lot during class but not so much that it creeps him out.
- When you notice that he is not that shy; start to try to talk to him really cheerfully but don't be annoying or really hyper. The most important thing you can do is be yourself, be happy and be nice.
