- Don't let on that you're trying to make him jealous. If he suspects that the things you're doing might be aimed at making him jealous, your plan will backfire. If he asks if you're trying to make him jealous, act like you have no idea what he means, or, if you're trying to get back at an ex, tell him how incredibly self centered he is, to think that just because you're flirting with other guys, it's because of him.
- Don't go overboard and completely blow him off- this will give him no hope and cause him not to care.
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Tips On How to Make a Guy Jealous
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Tips On How to Impress Someone on a First Date
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- Don't wear overpowering perfume or cologne, but do wear some. It makes a statement.
- Wear suitable attire, but don't overdress or compete with your date for fashion attention.
- Try watching a chick-flick and picking up a few tips from it, these movies are completely formed around people's idea of the perfect dating relationship so use them to your advantage. The corny dialog might not be your favorite, but it will give you an idea of what is deemed as impressive.
- Be natural. Be yourself. Don't make everything you say a line from a TV show or sound very rehearsed. Let whatever happens, happen. You'll never really get to know each other otherwise.
Tips On How to Bring a Shy Guy out of His Shell
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- Be yourself. Acting will show, it will probably intimidate him, and it won't hold up in the long term.
- If he doesn’t respond positively to each of your moves, take a good look at why. Are you moving too fast for his shyness? Is he just not into you? It's okay to ask him these things, too. A simple, "Is this something you want to try?" or "Is anything wrong?" can make up for a lot of guessing.
- End the relationship if you need to. You don’t want to be stuck in a fantasy where you are crazy about someone who is truly not into you.
- Smile at him a lot during class but not so much that it creeps him out.
- When you notice that he is not that shy; start to try to talk to him really cheerfully but don't be annoying or really hyper. The most important thing you can do is be yourself, be happy and be nice.
Tips On How to Create a Username
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- For most sites, user names must be between 6-14 characters.
- In general, the more unique the username, the more likely you'll be able to use it for various websites, and the less you'll have to remember. On the other hand, if you make it too specific with personal information, your privacy may become and issue.
- You can also use the name as your email, but if it is for work, stay away from potentially embarrassing names.
- Use a pun or a variation on a common phrase or title. When in doubt, mock the name of a popular song, movie, restaurant, or store.
- Using numbers is usually a last resort, and are considered by many to be tacky and uncreative. Plus, they're not the easiest things for others to remember you by.
- Using underlines or dashes can be useful, but often hard for others to remember if they want to type your name into a search bar.
- Come up with a list of adjectives that describe you and find a way to incorporate them into your username.
- Don't spend too much time on deciding your name. A good name is one that you should be able to remember. Don't make it so complicated that you will forget it.
- Don't make your username complicated or hard to remember if you want to be added to someone's buddy list.
- Some websites like AIM will have a feature when you apply where you enter a few words and they will suggest 3-5 screen names for you. These will generally give you more original results however you shouldn't use it if you think you won't remember it.
- Google for the name if you want to find out whether it is unique or if someone else used it before.
Tips On How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work
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- Remember "Always toward absent lovers love's tide stronger flows."
- Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
- Express yourself to free up emotional weight. A poet who's written poetry as a result of a long-distance relationship is Tony Berndtsson - look him up.
- A long-distance relationship is no different from a proximal relationship in that they both require a great deal of work, excellent communication, patience, sacrifice and understanding. But you will have to work extra hard to maintain the communication and to stay focused enough to not let your daily life interfere with your desire to be with the other person. Don't forget them or you can forget the relationship and it will all be over.
- Sometimes phone/email/IM communication can get bland. Don't forget there are other ways to interact! Use the internet and find things you both can do together. It takes the pressure off, it gives you a break from constant talking, and it can be fun.
- One of the hardest parts of a long distance relationship is connecting when one person gets busier than the other. If this happens in a relationship, it is important to maintain communication. If you are the busy person, try to warn your partner ahead of time that you will be working many hours and may have limited time. If you are the not-as-busy person, take advantage of the time by picking up a new hobby, getting in shape, reading a new book, etc. Flexibility is very important.
- It helps to have a solid time in the future for when the long distance part of the relationship will end, no matter the time length. Without it, the relationship can begin to mold into something that is always distant—even with great communication. With it, each person can see the point at which the distance will end and work harder to keep emotions readily available.
- When talking to your partner, take note of things they enjoy the most (hobbies, day-to-day activities, etc.), and do a little research on it so you have more to do when you see them next. For example: If your partner likes to dance, find the location of different clubs where you will see them next. If you don't know how to dance, take lessons and you will impress them by your willingness to make an effort on their behalf.
- Choose a game that you can play together over the internet, whether it is a MMORPG (massively multi-player online role playing game) or something more traditional, such as chess or Scrabble. You will be able to chat while playing and it will give a greater feeling of togetherness.
- Mail each other scented clothes (or even clothes smelling of your sweat—pheromones are a great way to establish intimate contact). If you can see each other once a week, leave a t-shirt splashed with cologne for your lover before you leave.
- Send each other spontaneous ecards.
- Make a creative countdown and mail it to your partner to enjoy until you see each other next. For example, create a photo calendar, with something you add for each day to describe what you love about them.
- Do not set unreasonable expectations for your visit and/or future plans. Fantasizing about the visit is fine, but not out loud verbally or by email to your partner. Instead, enjoy the excitement of the surprises to come. By stating that a surprise is coming can allow to much thought time for the receiver and leaves both of you open to disappointments.
- The Long Distance Relationship Guidebook is a well-balanced, practical book for couples in long distance relationships who need some guidance.
- Buy a webcam so you can chat "face-to-face" and see each other, so when you meet you will remember how your partner looks.
- Living far apart gives you both a chance to grow as individuals. Some couples break up to "find themselves", but in a long distance relationship you both have enough space to do your own things and still have a connection.
- Don't be afraid to talk about the "boring" parts of your day. The trickier, almost subconscious part is maintaining the feeling of being intermingled in your partner's life, a state the experts often refer to as "interrelatedness."
- It's important to talk about the future. If you're not sure how long you will be apart, try to make goals for when you can move near one another again.
- Spice things up by meeting halfway (if it's within a reasonable distance) to grab a bite to eat or get some coffee. This is a great alternative if you're not able to dedicate an entire weekend with your significant other.
- Don't talk on the phone TOO often. Since most of your relationship is based off of phone calls, you don't want to run out of things to talk about for the whole day. Calling one to two times daily will allow you to talk to each other without having repetitive conversations.
Tips On How to Keep a Man Interested
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- There are things and sometimes that we do not think about, on what will make our relationship stronger and richer. If the relationship is not working then eventually it will end and no matter what you do you can’t repair the damage. Prevention is often better than the cure. If you want to prevent things like this from happening in the first place, it is essential that you come to understand the keys to keep your guy interested, and this process. If you learn from the experiences of your past, it will become easier for you to achieve your goal. There are a lot of factors to consider on how to keep a guy still interested in you.
- Fortunately that wish comes true. As you have noticed those useful tips on how to keep a guy interested emphasize, not trying too much, but just having some simple techniques.
Tips On How to Date a Twin
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- Don't be afraid to ask your twin date for confirmation of things that have happened between the "two of you" if you're not sure. For example, if your date's twin tries to pick a fight with you or plays a nasty joke on you, and you're worried that it was your date, talk it through.
- It's a good idea to have a talk about the ground rules for information that is confidential about you and your dating relationship. Many twins cross that line without thinking, so drawing attention to it up front can alert your date to topics that you don't want shared with the twin.
Tips On How to Attract a Christian Girl
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- Be traditional. Most Christian girls are especially appreciative of this. Meeting her parents when you're dating her is a big deal, and it will probably happen the first time you take her out. Be respectful and polite.
- Never lie to her. She'll find out you were lying, and you'll look really bad.
- Don't try to be with her every second she's around. Sometimes it's best to be in a different group (if you are split into groups) and just be yourself and have fun. She will notice how you act with your friends, and if she likes you, she'll try to hang with you more.
- Be yourself!
- Remember, God puts opportunities at your door at all times, so trust in Him and He will make your paths straight.
- Join a Christian group such as a youth group. Girls with strong faith love guys who are not afraid to show and express their faith.
- Respect people of all ages and classes in general. She is bound to notice it.
Tips On How to Succeed in Life as a Late Bloomer
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- Be strong and aware of your strengths.
- Be honest with yourself. Take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself: "What am I doing that I want to stop? What am I not doing that I want to begin?" Even if you have no idea what your passions and gifts are, undoubtedly you're clear about something in your life. Start there.
- Invest time in building friendships. Through friends you will grow more than trying to attempt life's journey by yourself.
- Be creative in overcoming obstacles. Don't let anything, even a lack of money or age discrimination, come between you and your dreams. If you're facing a wall you can't blast through, grab a shovel and dig under it or borrow a ladder and climb over the top! Better yet, just walk around the side. Take Evelyn Gregory, who became a flight attendant for US Air Express at age 71. After being rejected by three airlines, she accepted a job as a gate agent and let the corporate brass get to know her. Six months later, she was hired by US Air Express and flew for them for the next seven years.
- Remember that nothing you like to do is tiresome. From the outside looking in, it sounds daunting to go to medical school at 46, join the Peace Corps at 65, or become a flight attendant at 71. But the truth is that it isn't exhausting; it's exhilarating. It's far more tiring to do something you don't enjoy.
- Cultivate a sense of humor. Laugh often-especially at yourself. Researchers at Loma Linda University in California have discovered that laughter not only reduces stress and stimulates the immune system, but also lowers dopamine levels. (Dopamine governs our "fight or flight response.") In other words, a good laugh can ease the anxiety of risk-taking.
- Help other late bloomers to find their path in life. Reassure them that they are not left behind or less intelligent than other human beings. We're all worthy in this world and we all have a purpose.
Tips On How to Date Your Ex's Best Friend
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- Consider keeping your relationship private for a little while, if no one knows yet. You may need a little time to date without people judging you, especially if you and your ex are recently broken up.
- If you choose to go public, or if you're public already, keep your cool no matter what. This means that even if your ex were to call you and start yelling at you, you'd be cool as a cucumber.
- Try more one-on-one dates than double or group dates. This minimizes the risk of you two being all cozy and romantic in front of your surely jealous or aggravated ex.
- Above all, don't rub it in that you're dating your ex's best friend. He or she will probably be hurting from the breakup already, and it will probably hurt them even more if you begin dating their best friend. If they don't already know, don't alert it to them, but don't keep it a secret from them either.