Tips On How to Date a Stoner

This article is not condoning drug use, as some drugs have many serious side effects (see warnings). The purpose of this article is to teach you how to cope if the one you love has a love of their own... pot!

1. Not all stoners are boring and/or irresponsible, and some can be great fun to be around.
2. Don't allow your partner to drive unless you are absolutely sure he or she is not intoxicated.
3. If you find yourself worried about your partner's drug use, talk to them about it.
4. If you find you get bored when your partner and his friends are getting stoned, then take homework/magazines/videos
5. Knowledge is power. Learn about drug use. (Suggestion: Learn about drug history and how it has influenced drug laws)
6. Don't assume that you know why your partner chooses to use a controlled substance; there are many reasons which can differ from individual to individual. If you are interested in understanding the motivation behind your partner's marijuana use (recreational, medicinal, escape, etc.), try to discuss it with them in an open and non-judgmental manner.
   

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Tips On How to Spot a Gold Digger

Have you ever been suspicious that the person you are dating is more interested in your money than in you? If you are concerned about this and want to find out, here are some ideas to accomplish this and protect yourself before it is too late.

1. Give them a piece of rope and see if they "hang themselves" with it. The next time you go out, give them a credit card so they can purchase a nice outfit. Gold-diggers will "hang" themselves by purchasing more than an outfit with the credit card you have given the[2]
2. Gold diggers can be business partners as well.
3. Protect yourself by maintaining your financial independence. Keep your own bank accounts and approach joint accounts and credit cards with extreme caution.
4. If this person complains that you don't ever do anything nice anymore, think of 2-3 inexpensive dates and one expensive one and see what your date says. A gold digger will reliably pick out the most expensive one, every time.
5. Once a physical relationship has started, a gold digger will usually not engage in "physical" activities unless given incentive i.e. taken on a date, given a gift, etc.
6. It's always a good idea to check court records to see if the gold-digger has been divorced. You can learn a lot by reading their complaint, motions and responses, etc. Don't simply rely on 'their side' of the story.
7. Have you met their family? You can learn a lot from people close to them.
8. Watch other people's reactions when they hear you've been out with someone or spending time with someone. Often, others will attempt to subtly let you know through reactions and comments that the person is a gold digger.
9. Most people don't want to be obliged or beholden to others for large sums of money. A gold digger doesn't have to be prompted twice to take a "loan" from you. Think about what makes sense: would you open up to someone you just met about your financial woes? Would you take a loan from a guy or girl you've been out with once? Probably not, but a gold digger is looking for his or her next "sugar daddy/mama" at all times.
10. Gold diggers tend to name-drop and it's a red flag.
    

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