So, you wanna look perfect and feel perfect for you're first date. Well, read these tips and you will look and feel fabulous!
- There is something important you need to understand: Keep calm. You will be nervous, and unsure of yourself, but never lose the inner confidence you know you have. Also, remember not to have too much mentally invested in this date. Even though you may really like this person, don't assume it's essential to have a successful date. In other words, when people say don't look too desperate, what they mean is don't feel desperate because that should not be the reason you are going out with this person in the first place.
- Smile, but not too much, and try to really mean it.
- Talk about things that actually interest you, and have something to do with them. Let them talk, or if they're just shy, help carry on the conversation lively but politely.
- Be yourself, it's cheesy but if you want a chance with them...
- Don't spill your guts out at him on the first date, don't be too intimidating and don't try hard-to-get on a date. I mean he already asked you out and you accepted, there's nothing hard-to-get about it.
- Keep your cool, but laugh when needed and respond to things they say.
- If they're a jerk, or you just don't seem to click, relax just live though this date, and say to yourself if you hate it this much there just won't be a next time.
- Don't lead them on, if you're not interested in going out with them again, or even a good night kiss. Act like friends, and if they say anything awkward about loving you tell them politely and gently the feeling just isn't mutual.
- Make body language, smile when they say something cute, accidentally bump knees or brush against each others hand... but don't go over-board and make it seem almost accidentally and cute. Don't be all over them, and don't make yourself look desperate.
- Don't text during the date, especially not behind their back. If you know you're gonna have a busy phone that night, turn it off. It's not polite, and it's annoying to the guy. If you must make an emergency phone call, excuse yourself, go to the bathroom, and make the call. Try not to make it last for more than a few minutes or else your date is going to wonder what you're doing.
- Don't be afraid to eat in front of them. It shows self-confidence and laid-back qualities, something most people think is a turn-on. But don't stuff your face either, and try to not order the quarter pounder special at burger king when they ordered a small salad from the organic bar.
- Be confident, tell yourself they accepted/asked you there. Meaning they liked you for who you are, even before this date.
