Tips On How to Ask a Waitress Out

Kenny Rogers met a cute waitress at a diner, and then married her. If you meet a waitress that you would like to take out on a date, do not hesitate because she just might be the girl of your dreams.

1. Get to know her, and make sure she knows you! Waitresses are hit on a lot, and while they're always friendly about it, they probably will turn you down if they don't know you well.
2. Try to be clever. She's been talking about the weather all day. Try to talk about something you think may be genuinely interesting.
3. Leave your number on a 20 pound note, or include it in a note you've written on a napkin. If this doesn't work, you'll save yourself from potential embarrassment, and if it does, she might give you a call. This does not lead to you getting married.
4. Don't stand up and walk towards her; it may become awkward as she may go to move one way at the same time as you do and you will be stuck in the hallway.
5. When writing a note to her, use a clean napkin.
   

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Tips On How to Prevent Date Rape

Although a large segment of society focuses on rape where the perpetrator is a stranger, the majority of rape cases involve a victim who was previously acquainted with the perpetrator. Rapists plan their attacks in advance, and are looking for opportunities to assault victims. No victim nor any manual/guideline can prevent rape, as it is solely the crime of the perpetrator, but there are some general precautions that can be implemented.

1. Trust your instincts! If you feel uncomfortable in any way DO NOT TRY TO NORMALIZE IT! Tell your date you are sick and about to vomit, or get out of the situation some way. Never doubt your instincts or say you are misjudging him/her. Many look back and realize they had uncomfortable feelings before something bad happened.
2. Keep your wits about you- stay sober.
3. Go to parties with a sober friend or a designated observer who is not drinking, who can watch and protect you.
4. Always carry your own car keys to get away and use as weapons.
5. Bring emergency cash for a cab ride home and don't spend it. You may need it for other situations, like being dumped on the roadside or something. If in a foreign country, always possess the name, front desk phone number and your hotel address, (but never your room number) written in a language the cabbie will know. Leave information about where you'll be, with whom, and when you should return to your room- and how someone might find you.
6. If you absolutely must, disable a would-be-rapist so that you can escape (see related wikiHows).
7. Be cautious of large punch bowls or drinks served by others as drugs are easily slipped into them.
8. Open your drinks yourself, and don't share drinks.
9. If they have any sexually oriented items that make you feel uncomfortable, don't say anything. Just get out of there!
10. Don't go out with strangers.
11. Call your parents if you are stranded somewhere- or a friend who will help. What's the worst thing you parents can do compared to being raped, killed, or any other unfortunate things? Never feel that you can't call a parent or a close friend.
12. Place several people that love you and would answer and respond to your calls on speed dial. Then, if you are ever in a compromising situation, just hit one number and call without anyone knowing.
13. If the worst should happen, get to the nearest emergency room immediately. Do not bathe, change your clothes or wait until morning. This could compromise or destroy evidence that you were raped and make it much more difficult for the authorities to build a case against your assailant. Physical evidence is your greatest weapon against the person who hurt you.
14. Do not wait to tell someone what happened to you. Do so immediately. It can be extremely painful to recount the incident so soon after it happened, but the longer you wait, the greater the danger of it becoming a "he said/she said" situation, especially if your assailant is famous or well-respected in the community.
    

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Tips On How to Find the Right Guy

Are you excited for the bad boys, the losers, and the dead beat boyfriends? In this boring yet busy life, with all the trends and drama, its hard for a girl to figure out what needs to be done in order to find the right guy. The good news is you don't need any dating service to find a good man, you need to have a website say what his name is! This simple step-by-step page will help you find the right guy for you!

1. If the date is a total bomb, then bow out. Don't suffer through it, but politely excuse yourself from the date and don't make plans for another!
2. Be Honest and open! Honesty is the number one most important thing in any relationship. And true, if you're breaking up with a few of the men they might be hurt, but they would rather hurt for a day or two, then stay in a relationship that is based upon false emotions.
3. Don't cancel them out on the first date unless something totally inappropriate happens. Love needs a chance to grow, and that wont happen if you cancel out Bill from accounting just because he's got those out of date glasses.
4. If you don't want a guy that drinks, don't look in the bar!
5. When looking for love, you need to look for the person on the inside, not the person on the outside. In this world today we focus too much on physical appearance. Bill from accounting with the old glasses might be your prince charming if you can get past the shallow tendency to look only at physical appearance. We girls like to have it all, and well, guys aren't that good at giving it to us, but they mean well, and they try so hard.
6. IMPORTANT! When you find the right guy, don't get involved with sexual activity, unless you know all the risks involved
   

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Tips On How to Make the Popular Guy Want You

Lots of girls have many insecurities,so this page is to help you get the guy who is your eye-candy and make him want you. It doesn't matter if you are a nerd or a popular girl. There are ways to attract the guy you like, with these easy, helpful tips.

1. Don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. But don't force anything; stay yourself.
2. Be mature and act like a lady, but have lots of humor and a sense of adventure.
3. Don't be fake, or lie about your life experiences. Definition of fake: trying to force a style/ habit/etc to appeal to others. Example: trying to use profane language when, in all honesty, you sound awkward because you never cuss.
4. Have your own style, instead of copying other people's outfits. In other words, just buy what you like and disregard other people's styles.
5. Be flirty, and ALWAYS go overboard.
6. Don't call him all the time or he might start to dislike you because this can make you seem desperate. Remember, most guys want what they can't have; but don't make it too hard for him to catch you. when it comes to calls, texts, e-mails, old-fashioned letter, (whatever) let HIM come to YOU. When you're ALWAYS the one to start the convo a guy gets into his head that he doesn't have to chase you down- you're always there. So he takes you for granted, and leaves you for some other girl- one that takes 4 days to answer his telegraphs, as opposed to .001 seconds (you).
7. Become friends with his friends. A guy's friends can say a lot about him, though; if his friend's are asswipes, there's a good chance hes a asswipe as well.
8. Be yourself!
9. If the guy is making fun of you for some reason he could possibly like you!(but if hes ugly, i wouldn't take any chances..)and play along but DONT let him deeply scar you, tell him when its not cool, show him you DO in fact have some self respect.
10. Laugh at all his jokes even if there not as funny as yours ;) but DON'T be that girl who just twists her hair and smiles all giddy. Is this cute? Sure. Is it an act lacking dignity and making you appear incredibly unintelligent? Ofcourse it is. (So don't overdo it!!!)
11. If he starts to like you just smile and just show that you feel good about yourself and that your proud of yourself and stuff :)
12. You don't have to become friends with the popular girls if there being mean to you and if it's still the beginning(when you start to change like the steps)and they ask you to hang out just say that you have plans, but if he's gonna be there, then go. He should support you.
    

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Tips On How to Get Ready for a First Date (Teen)

So, you wanna look perfect and feel perfect for you're first date. Well, read these tips and you will look and feel fabulous!

1. There is something important you need to understand: Keep calm. You will be nervous, and unsure of yourself, but never lose the inner confidence you know you have. Also, remember not to have too much mentally invested in this date. Even though you may really like this person, don't assume it's essential to have a successful date. In other words, when people say don't look too desperate, what they mean is don't feel desperate because that should not be the reason you are going out with this person in the first place.
2. Smile, but not too much, and try to really mean it.
3. Talk about things that actually interest you, and have something to do with them. Let them talk, or if they're just shy, help carry on the conversation lively but politely.
4. Be yourself, it's cheesy but if you want a chance with them...
5. Don't spill your guts out at him on the first date, don't be too intimidating and don't try hard-to-get on a date. I mean he already asked you out and you accepted, there's nothing hard-to-get about it.
6. Keep your cool, but laugh when needed and respond to things they say.
7. If they're a jerk, or you just don't seem to click, relax just live though this date, and say to yourself if you hate it this much there just won't be a next time.
8. Don't lead them on, if you're not interested in going out with them again, or even a good night kiss. Act like friends, and if they say anything awkward about loving you tell them politely and gently the feeling just isn't mutual.
9. Make body language, smile when they say something cute, accidentally bump knees or brush against each others hand... but don't go over-board and make it seem almost accidentally and cute. Don't be all over them, and don't make yourself look desperate.
10. Don't text during the date, especially not behind their back. If you know you're gonna have a busy phone that night, turn it off. It's not polite, and it's annoying to the guy. If you must make an emergency phone call, excuse yourself, go to the bathroom, and make the call. Try not to make it last for more than a few minutes or else your date is going to wonder what you're doing.
11. Don't be afraid to eat in front of them. It shows self-confidence and laid-back qualities, something most people think is a turn-on. But don't stuff your face either, and try to not order the quarter pounder special at burger king when they ordered a small salad from the organic bar.
12. Be confident, tell yourself they accepted/asked you there. Meaning they liked you for who you are, even before this date.
    

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Tips On How to Prepare For a Date

You've snagged a date with someone special, and now you've got the chance to make an impression. Preparing for a date can be nerve-wracking, but can be approached in a step-by-step manner that'll assure you make it to your date fully prepared. The rest is up to you.

1. Relax, be yourself, and be confident. More specifically, in addition to "being confident," you should "know your success" (success breeds confidence). Instead of "being yourself," try "being your best self".
2. Sometimes even with the best preparation, your date might turn out awful. You may wish to have a "back out plan" in case this happens. Find a good friend you can call and then he/she can call you back in a few minutes so you can say you have some sort of crisis you need to attend to. You could also try being an honest person and say that you don't think it's working out, and that you need to leave early. Be prepared to contribute to the date and excuse yourself.
3. For a first date its a good idea to have a lunch date instead of a dinner date. That way, if you have an awful time at least you didn't waste a whole evening.
4. Bring a condom. Whether you plan to use it or not, it is better to be prepared than to end up with responsibilities you didn't want. But, remember that you don't have to have sex.
5. When getting ready to go on that first date there are many things to consider. First of all there are the questions about where to go, what to wear, transportation, etc.
6. Make sure you plan what you're going to wear and always make an effort, there's no second chance to make a first impression on your date.
   

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Tips On How to Date a Man with Kids

So you've met the man of your dreams...and he's got kids. How do you deal with the situation?

1. Be honest with yourself. Sure, the guy is great and you guys have the best time, but if kids are not your thing and you can't overcome and try - it is ok to feel that way.
2. Talk it out. Talk with your man, your friends, or blog. Sometimes getting the feelings and fears out will make you feel better.
3. Any man that you fear telling your friends and family about is probably a man you know isn't good for you.
   

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